Married & Confused
Welcome to Married & Confused, the podcast where two experienced therapists help you navigate the often puzzling world of marriage. From everyday disagreements to life’s bigger challenges, we break down common issues couples face and offer clear, practical strategies to work through them. Whether you're feeling a little lost or just looking to strengthen your bond, we provide expert advice with a touch of humor and real-life stories to help you feel more connected and confident in your relationship
Episodes

Jun 7, 2025
Jun 7, 2025
25 min
In this episode of Married & Confused, we explore the best Father's Day gifts for dads, from the heartwarming to the humorous. We'll delve into gift ideas for dads at all stages of life and offer suggestions to make this Father's Day extra special.
To contact Claudia Delgado, LCSW, or to schedule a free 15 minute consultation, please visit her website at www.TherapyForWomenOnline.com
To contact Brittanie D. Mills, LMFT, or to schedule a free 15 minute consultation, please visit her website at www.brittaniedmillslmft.com.

May 24, 2025
May 24, 2025
30 min
This episode explores the challenges couples face during major life transitions like empty nest, infidelity, career changes, or retirement. Discover how these changes impact relationships and learn practical strategies for navigating them successfully. Gain valuable insights on maintaining open communication, realigning expectations, seeking support, and protecting your connection. Through real-life examples, learn how other couples have triumphed over life's transitions and find encouragement to face your own changes as a united team.
To contact Claudia Delgado, LCSW or to schedule a free 15 minute consutlation, please visit her website at www.TherapyForWomenOnline.com.
To contact Brittanie D. Mills, LMFT or to schedule a free 15 minute consultation, please visit her website at www.brittaniedmillslmft.com

May 10, 2025
May 10, 2025
27 min
In this episode of the Married & Confused podcast, we're trading serious for silly as we dive into the delightful (and often chaotic) world of motherhood. Remember those Pinterest-perfect visions of bedtime routines, homemade organic snacks, and picture-perfect family outings? Now, contrast that with mismatched socks, cereal-for-dinner nights, and tantrums over the wrong color cup!
Join hosts Claudia Delgado & Brittanie Mills, as they unpacks the hilarious gap between our idealistic expectations of motherhood and the wonderfully messy reality. With relatable anecdotes, a sprinkle of humor, and a reminder to give yourself grace, this episode is sure to leave you laughing and feeling seen.
Tune in for a dose of encouragement, some playful laughs, and maybe even a story or two about the infamous LEGO landmines of parenting. Whether you're a mom or just curious about the beautiful chaos, this one's for you!
To contact Claudia Delgado, LCSW, please visit www.TherapyForWomenOnline.com
To contact Brittanie D. Mills, LMFT, please visit
www.brittaniedmillslmft.com

Apr 26, 2025
Apr 26, 2025
28 min
In this episode, two therapists dive into the sensitive topic of one spouse falling out of love in a marriage. They explore the emotional and relational dynamics that contribute to this experience and unpack the complexities of what it means to lose that connection.
Topics include:
The signs that a partner may be falling out of love.
Common factors that lead to emotional disconnection.
The impact on both partners and the overall relationship.
How societal and personal expectations shape our understanding of love.
Join us for an honest and thought-provoking discussion about one of the most difficult challenges couples can face.
To contact therapist, Claudia Delgado, LCSW, please visit www.TherapyForWomenOnline.com
To contact therapist, Brittanie D. Mills, LMFT, please visit www.brittaniedmillslmft.com

Apr 12, 2025
Apr 12, 2025
26 min
In this episode, we explore the unique challenges and beautiful opportunities of interfaith relationships. From navigating differing traditions to fostering mutual respect, we offer practical tips for building a strong, connected partnership despite religious differences. Whether you're in an interfaith marriage or curious about the dynamics, this conversation provides insights for thriving together.
To contact therapist Claudia Delgado, LCSW, please visit www.TherapyforWomenOnline.com
To contact therapist Brittanie D. Mills, LMFT, please visit www.brittaniedmillslmft.com
For more relationship and life tips and info, please check out the Mustard Seed Counseling Blog at https://brittaniedmillsmft.blogspot.com/

Mar 29, 2025
Mar 29, 2025
36 min
Military marriages face unique challenges, from long deployments to the stresses of frequent relocations.. In this episode, we dive into the realities of maintaining connection, trust, and resilience in the face of these demands. We'll explore the emotional impact of separation, how to manage the inevitable isolation, and how to build a marriage that thrives despite the sacrifices. Whether you're in a military relationship or want to understand what makes these partnerships unique, this episode offers practical insights and heartfelt encouragement.
Mental Health Resources for Military Families
Military Crisis Line: 1-800-273-TALK (8255); Presss 1, text 838255
Military OneSource: 1-800-342-9647
Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS): 1-800-959-TAPS (8277)
Veterans Affairs (VA) Mental Health: 1-800-827-1000
Support Resources for Military Spouses
Military Spouse Connection: 1-800-342-9647
To schedule a free consultation with Claudia Delgado, LCSW, please visit her website at www.TherapyForWomenOnline.com
To schedule a free consultation with Brittanie D. Mills, LMFT, please visit her website at www.brittaniedmillslmft.com

Mar 15, 2025
Mar 15, 2025
30 min
In this episode, we focus on overcoming guilt and embracing personal convictions while addressing external pressures. We also dive into the tension between inherited beliefs and personal convictions. Join two therapists as we unpack the role of guilt in navigating the gap between "what I believe" and "what my parents believe." We'll discuss how guilt can show up in these conflicts, why it often feels so heavy, and strategies to honor your individuality while maintaining respect for your roots. If you’ve ever wrestled with guilt for stepping away from family traditions or values, this conversation is for you.
Claudia Delgado, LCSW is an individual therapist who works primarily with women. To reach Claudia or to schedule a free 15 minute consultation, please visit her website at www.TherapyForWomenOnline.com
Brittanie D. Mills, LMFT is a Marriage & Family Therapist who specializes in working with couples around issues of communication and conflict. She also works with individuals who are dealing with anxiety, perfectionism, and life transitions. To reach Brittanie or to schedule a free 15 minute consultation, please visit her website at www.brittaniedmillslmft.com

Mar 1, 2025
Mar 1, 2025
39 min
In this light-hearted episode, join Brittanie & Claudia as they share some of the interesting questions they've been asked by clients and friends alike. From misconceptions about what therapists really do to those quirky “Is it normal to…” questions, they dive into the humor that often accompanies the serious work of therapy. Tune in for laughs, insights, and a behind-the-scenes look at the questions that keep therapists on their toes!
We'd love to do more Q&A Episodes, so if you have questions you've asked your therapists, or questions you've heard others want to ask, or even questions you have for us, please share in the comments, send us an email, or send us a message on our Married & Confused Facebook Page. We'd be happy to try to answer fun questions and serious questions.
Claudia Delgado, LCSW specializes in individual therapy for women, especially around ADHD, infidelity, and anxeity. Please visit her website at www.TherapyForWomenOnline, to schedule a free consultation.
Brittanie Mills, LMFT, specialized in couples counseling, especially around issues of communication and conflict management. She also works with individuals around issues of anxiety, self-esteem, and perfectionism. Please visit her website at www.brittaniedmillslmft.com, to schedule a free 15 minute consultation.

Feb 15, 2025
Feb 15, 2025
31 min
In this playful episode, we turn a common marital challenge into a game: should you let it go or stand your ground? We’ll explore real-life scenarios and debate when to compromise and when to hold firm. Packed with laughs and lighthearted insights, this episode offers fresh ways to handle disagreements, communicate better, and keep your connection strong—even when you don’t see eye to eye.
If you're the wife and would like to unpack this further with a professional, please contact therapist Claudia Delgado, LCSW. for a free consultation. www.TherapyForWomenOnline.
If you think you might be interested in couples counseling, please contact therapist Brittanie D. Mills, LMFT, for a free consultation. www.brittaniedmillslmft.com

Feb 1, 2025
Feb 1, 2025
30 min
Valentine’s Day can often come with high expectations—perfect dates, extravagant gifts, and social media-worthy moments. But when reality doesn’t match up, it can leave couples feeling disappointed. In this episode, we explore how to manage Valentine’s Day expectations and shift the focus to what really matters: connection and love in the everyday moments. We’ll share tips on how to avoid the pressure of perfection, embrace imperfections, and find true romance in the ordinary. Join us for practical advice on keeping love real this Valentine’s Day, no matter how the day unfolds.
For women's therapy, please contact Claudia Delgado, LCSW at www.TherapyForWomenOnline.com
For couple's therapy, please contact Brittanie D. Mills, LMFT at www.brittaniedmillslmft.com
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